Why You Should Consider a First Look on Your Wedding Day
- Erica Lewis
- May 30
- 3 min read
If you’re planning your wedding and wondering whether to do a first look, you’re not alone. Many couples ask, “Should we do a first look on our wedding day?” or “What are the pros and cons of doing a first look?” Let’s walk through everything you need to know about first looks so you can decide what’s best for your big day.
What is a First Look?
A first look is a private moment where the couple sees each other before the ceremony. Traditionally, couples wait until the walk down the aisle, but modern weddings have embraced this intimate alternative.
Top Benefits of Doing a First Look
1. Calms Pre-Ceremony Nerves
Seeing your partner before the ceremony can ease anxiety and help you feel grounded. Many couples say it’s one of the most emotional and calming parts of the day.
2. More Time for Photos (and Better Light!)
First looks allow you to take portraits, wedding party, and even some family photos earlier in the day, giving you more time later to enjoy your guests. Plus, you’ll often have better lighting earlier in the day.
3. A Private Moment, Just for You
Weddings can feel like a whirlwind. A first look creates space to soak in the moment, cry, laugh, or simply hold each other before the festivities begin.
4. Extend Your Celebration
Knocking out photos early means you can attend your cocktail hour and spend more time with loved ones.
5. Capture Raw Emotion
Photographers and videographers love first looks because they can capture those real, unscripted reactions up close without the distractions of a full ceremony crowd.
Common Questions About First Looks
Will it ruin the aisle moment?
Not at all! Couples often say that walking down the aisle still feels just as emotional, even more so, because they’ve had that quiet moment to connect beforehand.
Is it bad luck to see each other before the ceremony?
That’s an old tradition based on arranged marriages. Today’s weddings are all about personalization, and many couples feel empowered to make choices that reflect their personalities and priorities.
Can we do a first look and still have that “wow” moment?
Absolutely. First looks create two powerful emotional moments: one intimate and personal, the other shared in front of loved ones.
What if my partner doesn’t want one?
Start the conversation early and talk about the pros and cons. It’s important to respect each other’s vision and come to a decision that feels good for both of you.
Photo Ideas to Include in Your First Look Blog Post:
- A wide shot of the partner waiting, from behind, before they turn around
- Close-up of facial reactions during the reveal
- Emotional hugs or laughter immediately after
- Couples portraits right after the first look while emotions are high
- A silhouette or creative angle shot for drama
- First look reactions from bridesmaids or parents watching nearby
Did you know you can also choose to do a First Look with other family members, your wedding party, or other special people in your life?
Whether you go with a first look or keep things traditional, the most important thing is choosing what’s right for you. But if you're torn, this meaningful, quiet moment might just be the highlight of your day.
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